Snow in Shanghai

Sunday, 3 February 2008




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And what a nightmare it was for me!


I have never seen snow my entire life until my few days ago in Shanghai. Yes i was exhilarated, but coming from a tropical country, i'm not exactly that enthusiastic either. I welcome the cold, a change from the sticky-sweaty feeling i get everyday in Singapore, but too much of it made me wanna go home rightaway. Snow was fun for a day or two (although i didn't venture out at all, it's nice to look out of the window to see the little white flurries). But on the third day, i wished the snow would just disappear within two blinks.


The room @ Grand Hyatt was cold, like fridge, even with the air condition off. When i got too near to the wide windows, the cold gets unbearable just after a few seconds. Curtains were thick and heavy, and it helped to block out the cold but that would mean, i can't leave it open at nite when i sleep. Did i tell you i need to sleep with the curtains drawn back when i stay in any hotel alone?? I'm scared lah. And i couldn't see anything outside the windows, the thick fog had it hidden completely from my view. Just as well i leave the curtains closed.


The next day on Wednesday, i could see outside a little. Icicle were slowly buidling up on the grills. I stayed on the 66th floor, so that must have been extremely cold outside.


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At least i get some view that nite :)


Snowed that afternoon but it stopped after a few hours but it continued at nite, right thru the next morning. It was rather a pretty sight. The city was covered in white, like a pretty blanket.


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The sun shined but the weather was freezing still. Friday was worst, snowed the whole day, got heavier in the afternoon and i couldn't quite make out the next building to ours! Flight was at midnite on Sat (first flight out) and i was hoping SQ won't cancel my flight or Pudong airport would not close for the second time this week Emily made a few calls to the travel agent and was told SQ would still fly that nite. Arranged for pick up at 9pm and off i logged out from work at 6.30pm.


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The way to airport was smooth, but snowed rather heavily. Arrived the airport at 10.30pm and check-in immediately. Boarded the plane around 11.40pm. Didn't even eat much at the lounge. Too packed.


Sheduled departure time was 0010 hours on Feb 2 but was told we had to wait for our plane to be de-iced first and that was estimated to happen at about 1.00am. At 1.30am, we were still waiting and by 1.45am, Captain informed us that as there were 20plus planes ahead of us, we would had to wait for another 3 hours. Supper were served immediately, inflight entertainment were switched on and headsets given out.


With too much champagne, and one singapore sling, i slept right after supper and all thru until 6am. When i opened my eyes, to my amazement, we were still grounded at the same spot!! 6.50am, we were finally taxing to the de-iced area. I was bursting with glee inside but less than 20 minutes later, the Captain had to deliver a bad news, they weren't allowed to fly as the crew would had exceeded their working hours limit by the time they arrived Singapore. Although i was deflated but it was a good safety measure policy. We were told to get off the plane and disembark. Naturally, some were not happy. And one woman who seated right in front of me made a big fuss. She was so unreasonable and grilled the poor leading stewardess, kept telling her what to do! I felt like telling that woman, maybe she would like to de-ice the plane herself and then fly the whole plane back since she knew exactly what to do!






SQ made arrangements for us. We boarded the bus that took us to Shangri-la Hotel Pudong. The crew needed their rest for at least seven hours before they can resume duties again. The passengers needed theirs too. No one likes to be stranded and everyone wanted to go home.



Shane wasn't feeling well. However, my aunt reassured me it wasn't serious and he was well taken care of. She wanted me to take a good rest in the hotel and not rushed home. I was relieved to have her taking care of Shane. It was a pretty stressful time for me but i needed a good sleep. After a really long hot bath, room service and a glass of wine, i slumbered off for the next six hours.





View of the Bund across the river.


Halfway thru my sleep, i received a call from the SQ rep that we would be flying out at midnite and would need to gather at the lobby at 9pm sharp.


Throughout the event, I felt like a refugee. 6 years ago, Champion was stranded in one small town in Canada during the 911 attack. His plane was scheduled to arrive into JFK 15minutes before the attack and immediately his plane was re-routed. Champion was housed in a school hall for nearly two days before moving to a hotel. There were just far too many passengers that were stranded then compared to now.


Anyway, we got on the bus and arrived at the airport, only to find ourselves in another confused state as the SQ staffs at the airport were not told exactly what to do. I don't blame them, two SQ flights leaving at the same time, one for that nite and one from yesterday nite. We went from queue to queue. But i agree with the rest that the station manager should have been more prepared for situations like this.


The first and business class passengers were upset coz the economy class passengers arrived earlier and were crowding around the check-in counters. Actually, i realised it's the business class passengers that kicked up the most fuss. They kept reminding the station manager that First and Business Class passengers should be given priorities to check-in. They made many demands (okay, not all were unreasonable) but that actually reminded me of a scene from Titanic years ago, where the rich gets the first priority to get on the boat and left those penniless to die. Okay, so money buys you priority huh? So perhaps they would want to buy a piece of property in moon? That way, no econ class people will get in their way.


To be honest, i'm sure SQ won't be that heartless. They will wait patiently for all the passengers to board before taking off, so i'm sure there was no need to rush. We have waited 24 hours, surely SQ would definitely be sympathetic enough not to leave any of us behind.


We boarded the plane but the plane was delayed for another hour or so due to missing cargos with our luggages, flight plan and food. When we were being given headsets again, i told myself, i don't want to spend another day in Shangri-la. As much as i like five stars hotel and free food, i prefer my humble home and warm cosy bed. Naturally, with Shane as the biggest enticement, i wanna go home!!


We took off round 1am. Flight wasn't bumpy or maybe i couldn't feel anything coz i was soon fast asleep again. No food was served on the plane. The Captain didn't want to delay the flight any further and so took off without the loading much food. As a compensation, we were all given a US$75 voucher reedemable for any items in the Krishop.


Shane was such a good boy. He didn't kicked up any fuss when his mommy didn't buy anything back for him. For such young age, he's much more understanding than all the fussy business class passengers combined ;p

 

From Music To One Nite Stand

Saturday, 26 January 2008




I blog 'better' when i have music playing in the background, especially if it's one that used to be on my repeat mode. Not sure about you, but i have this habit of putting a song i like on repeat mode for several days straight without getting bored of it. That i call 'my songs-of-the-moment'. Different songs-of-the-moment have different special meanings to me. Sometimes it involved certain people and other times, a particular peiod of my life.


What makes a good song? Lyrics or music? For me i think it's more the music that chains me than the lyrics.


Was chatting with Jen, somehow our topics went from music to kids to men to ONS - one nite stand (casual sex). We have very different views about ONS. Me, coming from a rather traditional family, i am glad to say i have never once indulged in such dalliance. I don't think very highly of it and i feel such intimacy shouldn't happen between two people who barely know each other or who just want to satisfy their physical needs. Moreover, being a mom, makes it just plain not right. Not that being a mom can't, but being a single mom somehow makes me wanna set things right for my son, and cultivating the right values from day one. Having said that, i also do not abhor those who particpate in this. For this is just me, my own preferred way of living my life. You have a right to yours.


I am someone who have issues detaching physical (read: intimacy) from emotions. Therefore, should i ever allow myself one chance at this frivolous affair, it definitely must have that little touch: feelings. Which will then lead to another reason why ONS will never be part of my life: commitment. Not that i have issues with commitment, but sharing such intimate indulgence with someone who regarded it as another afternoon high-tea is just so 'not for me'. That guy must share the same level of commitment as me for i dislike having my feelings trampled all over nor having my emotions tossed out of the window like a used condom. Especially now with my status, i can't just 'do it'. I have my son's pride and feelings to think of. I'm no longer just me. I'm a mother and i want to be a responsible mother and the best that i can be and one who thinks not just for herself but for how her son will feel or how people will look at him. It's not easy being in my shoes but hey, i like it this way and trust me, i do not dislike my life, not the slightest bit :)


Having Shane is the best thing that happen to me, apart from being born into a family of great parents and wonderful siblings. I count my blessings of having the bestest boss and great working colleagues. Unlike the famous phrase "We are not friends, we are just colleagues", i'm happy to say "We are not just colleagues, we are also friends". In fact, good friends! It's so nice to work in a place where you have more friends than colleagues and it makes coming to work a lot bearable :)


Was on a conference call on Thursday when Champion popped his head into my room asking, "Are you going to Key Biscayne?" I told him "no" coz i wasn't being invited. So now, i'm hoping someone somewhere will wrech me an invite for i know Champion is going to buy his three "Stars" a special dinner at Key Biscayne. I want to tag along for some free trip, free food, free wine and an opportunity to bask myself in Champion's 'intellectual philosophies'! Yes, i'm very much a playful mom too! ;p


Oh, did i tell you i'm part of the parents supportive group in Shane's school? It's so exciting and my first assignment? A Yakult trip. It was so fun but it's most tiring too. Being teachers are not easy. I truly salute them for i can't imagine myself handling 24 hyper active and super cute kids who seem to have inherit a super ability of talking incessantly without the need for breaks. I am most impressed!









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Off to some packing now. Mommy is jetting to cold Shanghai next week. I will miss my baby and his snuggling close to me at nite.



Somethings's Gotta Give

Monday, 21 January 2008




So, can liking or even love be based on looks alone? When i'm 56 years old and still single, if a hot, cute thirty something doctor comes along and falls madly in love with me, and i for no particular reason, choose him and not a four-year-older than me man, then i probably may have fallen for the good looks of the young doctor. But what about that young doctor? Well...ahhem, he probably choose me and not some sweet-looking girl his age because he must have think me is the hottest woman in the world loh, what else can that be right?


Or if i'm one of the richest women in the world, haha :) then i'm sure you peeps will probably say the young doctor falls for my golds and diamonds, stocks and shares. How boring, so predictable!


May I ask then, what do you look for when qualifying 'the one'? Are looks and money really that important?


I had the pleasure of giving my qualifications to Lynn over lunch last Friday. What started the conversation was Mommy Al telling us how Champion asked a certain Mr. Tan to source for 'candidates' for me! And he told Mr. Tan "not too ugly" ya. Champion is so cute lah, i think he is secretly worried i will just work and work and stay single my whole life. And i know for certain, he shared this concern with my current CIO when she happened to be in town last August.


What exactly am i looking for in a 'mate'. About two years ago, i wrote this entry:


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And, i still maintain my stand. I'm looking for someone who can make me laugh, no matter he is twenty years younger or twenty years older, no matter he looks like Mr. Bean or Mr. Reeves. Physical 'looks' are subjective. Your trash could be my treasure ;p


But that person must be able to support himself. I don't need him to support me or Shane but of course, if he can support both of us, why not right? I promise to be a good, obedient stay-home wife/mum and cook all his favourite dishes at mealtimes. Haha.


If you know someone who is funny and is able to support himself, please email me at wei1616@gmail.com. Hmmm, but i can't promise i will reply though ;p




We made some bookmarks together last week, with pictures we found on the internet. Everyday at home now is very challenging. It's like 'racing against time' and i know it's gonna stay this way for a long time to come.


Shane goes Primary One and so is his Mommy. Shane does his homework every nite, so does his Mommy. Shane goes to bed early but not Mommy. Mommy has to pack school books for the next day, wash school shirt, socks and shoes (still can't understand why the school shoes can get so dirty after only ONE day!) and ironing as well.


Please tell me, who is the one going Primary school these days?


A New Year, A New Begining

Wednesday, 2 January 2008




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At least for Shane, it is definitely a new beginning, a new chapter in his life. Primary school life. Shane has reached a new milestone.


I get teary easily, especially when Shane is involved. Watching him joining his class queue last Friday during the school orientation made me teary. Seeing him dressed up this morning in his school uniform made me teary. Sending him to school and watched him go up the staircase leading to a room far from me, where parents were barred - made me teary. Watching him from afar during his break time, watching him eating his food, talking to his friends, washing his tender hands and joining back the queue after the break made me teary. Waving to him when he was on the second storey on his way back to his class, made me teary for the last time today. WE have made it this far. It's also an achievement for me, for i can tell you, it's not easy.


Looking back at my life is like watching a TVB long-running drama except i don't have a wicked step-mother nor ex mother-in-law who snatched away my baby son and made everyone weepy. I always wanted to be a mother but I never imagined myself to walk this path all by myself, let alone walked this far with Shane. Now young Shane is in Primary One. He told me that he's now a young man, no longer a baby.


And this young man has certainly made me proud, in many ways and not just once. Growing up without a constant male influence has somehow turned him into a mini-me, except of course, Shane is much smarter and cuter. And my biggest worry now is whether does he know how to use the boys' toilet in school!


I once wrote, We have come a long way. Life with him is ever so enriching and entertaining. He has been through so much with me. For his tender young age, he is mature in a way. Shane, the Star of my life. Twinkling in the darkest moment, like a mini torch guiding my way through. I can’t imagine my life without him anymore. He shares everything i have, my love, my joy, my fears and my tears.


Today, i love him more than yesterday. And tomorrow, I will love him even much more than today. My love for him is growing more and more each day, to the point that i want to hold him like this forever, not doing anything, not going anywhere, just holding him close to my heart.


I had a fleeting moment of sympathy for his father, the man who has never known what true love is, the man who has never heard his child's first cry nor his first word. The man who doesn't really know how to love a child. The man who has never gave himself a chance to experience his child's great love. The man who missed his child's many first time. No matter who's right and who's wrong, i am happy with the way my life turned out to be. I'm contented with what i have because Shane completes me.



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Priceless

Monday, 24 December 2007




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Bumming Around

Friday, 21 December 2007



Lack of updates? Nay, that's just me, the procrastinator who currently happens to be the laziest bummer waiting for Christmas to come.


Taking a break from work, three weeks starting from Dec 17th. Slept late and woke up late everyday. Eat lunch. Shopping. Watch movies at Golden Village. Watch HBO @ home. Watch National Geographic. Watch DVDs with Shane. Play Ben-10 on the computer with Shane. Watch Travel & Living. Watck K-dramas. Eat Dinner. Watch more K-dramas on the cable. Basically wasting my time away. Boredom? No. Pure Bliss i would say. For the past six years, I hardly take any time off for more than three days in a row. And now, i'm taking three weeks straight!! Ahh.. what a joy. And while i have so much time now, i'm gonna hatch some plots to marry the richest man in town so that i can do this for the rest of my life!! Hahaha.


Yes, i have not forgotten about sharing my party pics. Had a wonderful time at the party of the year. Every year, people constantly surprise me. And this year is the best, naturally coz i'm part of the 'Passionate Party Planners' :)


We did things slightly differrent this year. Had 'A RRAtatouille Affair' in the morning and of course our 'RRAcsar Nite' in the evening. To share with you, our 'RRatatouille Affair' was a cooking session in Corriander Leaf and it was real fun. But as planners, i didn't get to cook but i had fun watching! And i had another idea for a party next year June, provided Champion gives me the budget lah.


The party at nite was at Pierside Kitchen. I was disappointed with the level of service at Pierside and I would discourage anyone who wanted to organise a party of more than 40pax there. They are not just not ready to handle that many people. But overall, i had a great time there coz we had a very good emcee and DJ and plus of course, three very gorgeous party planners! :)


This year, the party planners organised a make-up artiste ;p


He's really very good. Rick Yang (contact: 9856 6866). He will come to your place, do your make-up and hair and he did a very good job for the three of us. Although i'm not used to having thick make-up and felt the urge to wash it away, but with Karen and Lynn's reassurance, i'm soon in love with my new 'face'!

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Yay, that's right, best party in town!!





And little Shane did his part for Mommy's party. I filmed him singing some songs, most he heard for the first time. I'm so proud of him!! Here's his segment and tell me how many songs you guessed correctly!!



Merry Christmas to all!


From My Random Folder

Thursday, 25 October 2007



I'm beginning to fall in love (all over again) with blogspot. Its redesigned menu is a breeze to use :) and it now has an autosave feature!! I will never have to worry about losing my entry before saving it officially!! Although i'm not a stranger in IT, but web design is not my forte. Having said that, i may get some professional help in getting my own website done and this website is what i have long been wanting to have. No, it's not a website for myself but rather, a website showcasing my handmade accessories.



If you have been visiting my moblog, you would have read that i was in Shanghai in July. Not really an exciting month to be there coz it was extremely hot, as if you were standing right outside a heated oven! Was there for work and was lucky to stay at the Grand Hyatt Jin Mao (Pudong) where my office is.








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The constant traveling and eating has a bad effect on me - i have put on wanted pounds, so i am currently making my own salad for dinner at home:



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Getting Excited!

Monday, 15 October 2007



Shane is starting school next year and i'm really getting very excited for him. Bought him some new stationery and started labeling them all with the new label machine, bought specially for this new activity of mine. I tagged everything, including his colour pencils. Am i too free or what?? :)



Me & My Younger Brother ;p

Saturday, 13 October 2007


Haha...okay, just a little joke. Btw. i'm really upset with my camera. You know, i took loads of pics when i was in Tokyo with Shane. When i returned, i downloaded them to my pc but i accidentally erased all the pics away in my memory stick halfway through the downloads... so i'm left with just half of the pics. I'm really very upset now :(


Re-Open?

Wednesday, 10 October 2007



Enjoy Part One of our Disney Adventure! :)